Gossip is poison. But it’s become so common in our conversations and culture that we barely notice it anymore. It’s subtle. Sometimes even dressed up as “concern” or a prayer request. But it’s still gossip, and it quietly wrecks relationships, communities, and our spiritual integrity. Let me be honest right up front: I’ve gossiped. I’ve…

Opinions are shifting about how Christians should share their faith. Some argue for more relational approaches. Others still lean on confrontational styles or structured presentations. The debate will likely continue. But for many believers—regardless of method—the fear of rejection is what really keeps us quiet. And if you’ve ever hesitated to bring up Jesus in…

The way of the world goes something like this: We do things—perform, serve, work—to prove our worth. We chase value in the eyes of our family, friends, spouse, boss, or even our pastor. If we do a good enough job and others perceive us as valuable, then we believe we’ll be accepted and wanted. Slowly,…

Wherever I go, I hear the same concern: “We just don’t have enough quality leaders.” It’s something I’ve heard from pastors, ministry leaders, and nonprofit directors alike. They’re worn down, stretched thin, and wondering who they can trust to carry more weight. And more importantly… how to find those people in the first place. Let’s…

If you’re a Christian who has grown up “going to church” most Sundays, you may find yourself quietly wondering: Is this all there is? Maybe instead of just going to church, it’s time to BE the Church. I spent my first few years as a pastor at a really large church near Chicago. I’ll always…

If you’re looking for a natural, low-bar way to disciple others and live life on mission, you may be sitting on (or at) a goldmine—your dinner table. For years now, my wife Tina and I have been living out our faith in the context of real, intentional community—not just “going to church,” but sharing life…

I’m often asked what the rhythm of life looks like in our family or missional community. Is it a calendar full of planned activities? Or is it just hanging out when the mood strikes? The answer is: both. One of the most helpful ways I’ve learned to think about life together-especially when we’re living on…